Very few people on AM like to communicate through the site as it costs men credits to do so. I get this and I have no issues with moving to email and will often provide my email before they ask. However, all anybody wants to do these days is text, of which I'm not 100% okay.
For the record, my job requires a high level of security. I'm not allowed to have my phone on me if I'm in my office. When I get to work, I have to lock my phone and any other electronics in a locker and then my purse goes through an x-ray machine. The only times I can text or make a call is if I go to my locker (which is outside the secured area) and then go to a certain break room or outside if the weather is nice. So, this means next to no texting at the one time most men want to text, i.e. during the workday away from their wife.
Also, I feel like texting is the next step after a few emails are sent. I prefer to get to know someone through a few emails first and a phone call or two and then I'm okay with texting. Texting is a horrible way to get to know someone and for me, it's a red flag.
Desperiation is a bad thing on AM and it comes across in many ways. I said in one of my first posts that a full face photo is a bad thing, as it shows you don't know what you're doing or you want to get caught. Jumping several "getting to know you" steps is like a full face picture; you're desperate because you just found your wife cheating on you and you want to even the score quickly. I don't like being with desperate men. Wait, let me rephrase that: I don't like being with men who are trying to even a score with their wife. I've done a few of those relationships back in my starting out days and they ended up being the worst. It's as if these men wanted to be caught, which is something I sure as hell don't want.
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